Confronted via omnipresent threats of activity loss and alter, even the brightest between us are frightened. In reaction, we are hunkering down, blocking off ourselves from new demanding situations. This reaction hurts us and our agencies, yet we worry making ourselves much more susceptible through committing blunders whereas studying anything new.
In Flying and not using a Net, Thomas DeLong explains tips on how to draw power from vulnerability. First, comprehend the forces that strengthen nervousness in excessive achievers and the unproductive behaviors you switch to for aid. Then undertake practices that provide the braveness to "do the suitable issues poorly" sooner than "doing the correct issues well."
Drawing on his large examine and consulting paintings, DeLong lays out:
- Roots of excessive achievers' anxiety: worry of being fallacious and shortage of a feeling of objective, and a longing for human connection
- Destructive behaviors we undertake to alleviate our anxiety: busyness, evaluating ourselves to others, and blaming others for our frustrations
- Behaviors we needs to undertake to achieve power from vulnerability: placing the earlier at the back of us and looking sincere feedback
Packed with useful suggestion and encouraging tales, Flying and not using a Net is a useful source for all leaders looking to thrive during this Age of Anxiety.
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